Blink if you understand this.
The unsaid and what it all means or doesn’t.
A person with two functioning eyes cannot help but blink regardless of whether or not that person understands. Someone can state that a person blinking makes it true that he or she understands, to that person that is what it means, but another person might have a different experience. Both are important in being able to come closer to understand one another.
Presented at the University of Michigan and Women & Children First Bookstore, Chicago